Events
Conscious Carnality & Slow Socializing: Anthropos Festival June 27-June 28 Toronto, ON.
Modern social life increasingly moves at the speed of the algorithm. Swipe culture, instant messaging, endless scrolling, and dopamine-driven interactions are reshaping not only how we communicate but how we experience attraction, intimacy, anticipation, and desire itself.
Even pleasure can begin to feel disconnected from presence, embodiment, and genuine human connection.
Yet beneath the speed and stimulation, many people are longing for something slower, more intentional, and more real.
This talk explores the growing desire for “slow socializing” and more conscious forms of connection that invite people back into presence, playfulness, sensuality, and embodied interaction.
Drawing from experiences within sex-positive spaces and alternative social environments, the conversation examines how modern culture shapes intimacy, attention, vulnerability, and belonging.
What happens when connection is approached not as consumption or instant gratification, but as something relational, embodied, and fully inhabited?
Biography
Fatima Mechtab is a creative visionary, speaker, writer, and co-owner of Oasis Aqualounge, a women-owned sex-positive venue and social space in Toronto.
A passionate advocate within sex-positive spaces and beyond, her work explores intimacy, culture, connection, pleasure, and alternative social dynamics through a lens of respect, curiosity, and shared values.
Since 2020, Fatima has expanded her work to include queer fiction ghostwriting, content marketing, online event production, and public speaking, reflecting an ongoing commitment to conscious growth and creative exploration.
Drawn to niche topics and subcultures, she approaches complex conversations with both responsibility and grace, bringing together the integrity of a dedicated professional with the playfulness of a responsible rock star.
A Threesome with an AI Companion as a Monigamous Couple
When you think of having a threesome, you probably don’t imagine typing on a laptop or a phone, communicating with a digital image.
But this is the age of AI, and while it might be mind-blowing to believe, machines can offer more than just learning; they are also being created to incite lust.
On Friday, June 26, join Fatima Mechtab at Pleasure Island, in Kingston, ON., as she shares the results of her experiment with an AI companion and the journey of virtual eroticism she enjoyed with her partner, as a married, monogamous couple.
'How to Find ( and How to Treat!) a Unicorn: Secrets Revealed from Magical Creatures.' Pleasure Island, Kingston, ON, May 29: 6:30 pm-8 pm
On Friday, May 29, published author, lifestyle club co- owner, and public speaker Fatima Mechtab will be presenting at Pleasure Island on ‘How to Find a Unicorn.’
Many heterosexual or bisexual couples want to know how to find a unicorn to indulge their ultimate fantasy of finding a woman to join them for a threesome.
Within ‘lifestyle terms,’ a ‘unicorn’ is considered a bisexual partner who is interested in having sex with both females and males, in a couple.
This talk will cover not only how to ethically find and treat a unicorn, but also how to understand who unicorns are and what they want when seeking out couples for intimate encounters.
This presentation will be held from 6:30pm-8pm in the presentation room on Pleasure Island. We look forward to seeing you there!
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Climax Conference: Sunday October 2026 at the Infinity Centre in Ottawa
I am thrilled to be speaking at this year's Climax Conference being held in Ottawa at the Infinity Centre, on Sunday, October 25.
The Climax Conference is 'a holistic approach to sexual wellness' and a must-attend for educators, peddlers of of pleasure-based products and consumers who want to deep-dive into erotism.
Catch me on stage, for a presentation on 'Erotic Exhibitionism' and on a panel discussion, where we will address the concept of 'Hotter Monogamy.'
To learn more, visit their website fpr tickets, workshops and their speaker list.
Events
Femme to the Front: Saturday April 25. 2026 at 8pm
Femme to the Front is an inclusive gathering for all genders, celebrating feminine energy, style, and expression, happening on Saturday April 25 at La Vida Bistrobar & Social, starting at 8pm.
Guests can expect an interactive event with entertainment, dancing, and icebreakers to help facilitate meeting and mingling with the like-minded, q
Femme to the Front is an inclusive gathering for all genders, celebrating feminine energy, style, and expression, happening on Saturday April 25 at La Vida Bistrobar & Social, starting at 8pm.
Guests can expect an interactive event with entertainment, dancing, and icebreakers to help facilitate meeting and mingling with the like-minded, queer community in Kingston, ON. Your most fabulous interpretation of femme style is highly encouraged.
This event is hosted by Fatima Mechtab (she/her) and J.T.
Enjoy live music from DJ Melanie Sutherland (Toronto, ON) and DJ Jula (Ottawa, ON), creating a festive, dance-friendly vibe.
Kingston's own Aidan Ignatius (he/they)will be selling their handcrafted jewelry and PWYC tarot card readings.
Professional belly dancer Samara (Toronto, ON.)will be offering a mini, interactive belly dance lesson for guests, along with a special performance.
Take part in icebreakers to meet other guests, and participate in our 'Fab Femme Strut' to show off your most playful, femme fashions for a chance to win fantastic prizes.
Admission is $10 through Eventbrite. Admission at the door is $15 (cash only). https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/femme-to-the-front-tickets-1982618967703?aff=ebdsshcopyurl&utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=
Event Accessibility Guide: Femme to the Front Physical Access
We want to ensure you have all the information needed to navigate our space comfortably.
Entry: Our venue (La Vida Social Bistrobar and Social) is located on the 2nd floor. Please note that access requires climbing one flight of stairs. There is currently no elevator or ramp access at this location.
Restrooms: Two large, single-use, gender-neutral washrooms are located on the same floor as the event. The washrooms are located on the right-hand side of a small but wide hallway.
Seating: A variety of seating available throughout the event. We do not have a "standing room only" policy.
There will be complimentary ear plugs available for those who experience auditory sensitivities. Please note that this event will include live music via DJs and a soundsystem.
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